Termination for medical reasons (TFMR) happens when a pregnancy is ended because of serious fetal or maternal health complications. It's a medically guided decision made after careful discussions with your healthcare team, and an emotionally complex experience that intertwines medical care, grief, and love.
Why TFMR Happens
Severe fetal anomalies are detected that are incompatible with life, such as major brain or heart defects.
There are serious risks to the mother's health or life (including severe pre-eclampsia, infection or heart disease)
Chromosomal or genetic conditions are identified through prenatal testing (for e.g., Trisomy 13 or 18)
The Medical Process
Depending on gestation and location:
Before 14-16 weeks: TFMR is usually performed as a surgical procedure (dilatation and curettage or dilatation and evacuation) under anesthesia.
After 16 weeks: After 16 weeks: TFMR is typically managed through induced labour in the hospital. You'll receive full pain relief and emotional support throughout.
Aftercare and Recovery
Light bleeding for 1-4 weeks is normal.
Hormone levels gradually return to baseline over several weeks.
A follow-up appointment will review your physical recovery, emotional well being, and any genetic or pathology results if you've requested them.
You can request genetic or pathology reports if desired.
Emotional Side
TFMR can involve both grief and moral conflict.
“We made an impossible choice out of love.”
You deserve care, compassion, and space to mourn — without judgment.
Key Takeaways
TFMR is a medical procedure often tied to heartbreaking diagnoses.
Recovery includes both physical and emotional healing.
Specialized bereavement or TFMR-specific support can be invaluable. Professional and peer support can be invaluable as you navigate grief and next steps.
✨ Sibyl offers space for reflection and emotional support after TFMR — honoring the complexity of love and loss in every story. Sign up to test an early version of the app here: https://www.sibyl.care/signup
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